Death of a brother touches me deeply…

Posted on May 22 2012 by Pat Killingsworth | 1,142 views

Does multiple myeloma run in families?  Most experts say no.

Tell that to the Martin family.  Reader Larry Martin emailed me a week ago to share that his younger brother, Lee, died April 30th from complications associated with his multiple myeloma.

Larry wrote how his brother had been able to work and spend time with his family for most of the nine years since his diagnosis.

After reading a lot about his life, it sounds like Lee was a wonderful guy.  I would have liked to have met him.  I will share more about his life in a moment.

In the meantime, something Larry wrote–almost as an afterthought–caught my eye.  Apparently, Lee is the third member of the Martin family to die from multiple myeloma during the past fifteen years.

As it turns out, the Martin Family is quite large.  His mother had nine brothers and sisters, and they had 24 children.

Coincidence?  Maybe.  But 3 out of 34 is definitely a statistical anomaly–and a horrible myeloma cross to bear.

Could there be an environmental factor?  Possibly.  But most myeloma experts are still reluctant to assign blame.  Multiple myeloma is considered to be a “random” disorder.  Sort of like winning the cancer lottery in reverse.

I feel for Lee and the Martin family.  Three myeloma related deaths in fifteen years.  I’m so, so sorry, Larry!

But let’s not let any of this overshadow the story of Lee’s life!  Larry was kind enough to provide me with some highlights he thought I might be interested in, along with this picture of Lee.

Larry never intended for me to publish any of this.  He was privately reaching out to me.  He wanted me to know how special his brother was.  But I persuaded the family to allow me to write about Lee.  Sounds like he was a pretty special guy!

Here’s what Larry had to say about his brother:

For several years Lee was a realtor. Prior to that, he had a 30 year career in television sports, including 14 years working with the Dallas Cowboys. Some of the highlights of his sports career:

Lee did the first instant replay in television sports. This was during his show Dallas Cowboys Weekly, with Tex Schramm, Cowboys General Manager, as his co-host.

Lee brought Fantasy Football to television.

When ESPN began, Lee produced six original shows each week for the new network. In addition, most shows were broadcast multiple times during the week.

Lee was very blessed to have nine years.  During the past three years, he was present for the marriage of his son, the birth of a grandson and the grandson’s first birthday.  During the illness, Lee had two autologous stem cell transplants and two back surgeries (for four compression fractures which occurred before his multiple myeloma was diagnosed).  He was in remission 14 months following the first transplant, and 30 months following the second.

Of course I never met Lee.  But after exchanging emails with Larry, I feel surprisingly close to him.  In his first email to me, Larry wrote this:

“Lee had several interests in common with you, including real estate, communications, sports, and of course multiple myeloma.”

There are quite a few commonalities here.  All I know is that I feel fortunate to have learned more about Lee’s life and death.

Let me close with a short excerpt from an article that the Dallas Morning News ran about Lee on May 7th:

Lee Martin, the man behind numerous ’80s Cowboys TV productions, dies

Lee Martin, a giant in local television sports production, died April 30 in his native Kentucky.

Martin’s son Mike, passed on the sad news this morning. Mike said his father lost a lingering battled to bone marrow cancer. He was 64.

Lee Martin was the sports anchor at Channel 4 from 1977-1979. Soon after he left Channel 4, he started Lee Martin Productions.

Dallas Cowboys Weekly show from 1980-1989. His company for years also produced the Tom Landry Show. In 1986, it offered the Cowboys “Ticket To Training Camp,” daily live broadcasts from training camp in Thousand Oaks, Calif. The company also worked with WCCW and the Von Erich family in the 1980s. From 1992-1994, Martin also hosted Sunday Night Showtime which aired first on Channel 4 and then Channel 11. It featured sports talk and music. Among the regulars who joined Martin were were Randy Galloway and Jim Dent.

My thoughts and prayers go out to Larry, his son, Mike, and all of the Martin Family.

I’m sure that Lee would still like me to close with my optimistic and hopeful, “Feel good and keep smiling!”  Rest in peace, Lee-  Pat

 

 

 

12 Comments For This Post

  1. JustinS Says:

    Hi Pat,

    Just to clarify you mentioned all 3 passed in the last 3 years, but a couple lines later mentioned 3 in 15 years. I’d be interested to know if it was the former rather than the latter as a sudden environmental exposure could possibly be a trigger. Heartbreaking story regardless.

  2. Pat Killingsworth Says:

    Bad editing? And I was trying to be so careful… It’s 3 in 15 years.

  3. KIRA Says:

    Are those 3 siblings were from the same generation? Who they were to each other? They grew up or living in the same area?

  4. Pat Killingsworth Says:

    I’m not sure, Kira. Let me see if Larry can shed some light on that…

  5. kira Says:

    Thank you for a quick response.
    My mother passed from MM IN 2001 and recently i am in fear, reading more and more about this desease. So far she is only one in the family.
    All doctors telling that it is not inherited desease but recearches are very confusing.

  6. Pat Killingsworth Says:

    I understand how you feel. But try not to worry (easy for me to say!) because stats say very unlikely that you will develop myeloma, too…

  7. JustinS Says:

    The one bit of fortunate news kira is that you will be VERY knowledgeable if symptoms ever present themselves. Most patients even today have this luxury. With my dad, for instance, it was many MANY months before a proper diagnosis was made. Fortunately it was dealt with in the nick of time (tumor in skull near brain that was beginning to become very difficult to deal with), but I can guarantee you if I ever present with some unusual symptoms I’ll be running for a comprehensive blood test (including testing for M-spike).

  8. JustinS Says:

    Do *NOT* have this luxury….

  9. Pat Killingsworth Says:

    Kira-
    Larry just emailed me, clarifying info about his three family members who have had myeloma:

    “They represent two generations. Two were first cousins and the third was their uncle. All three were male.

    Two lived within five miles of each other. The third lived approximately 20 miles from the other two.”

    I’m not sure this helps clear anything up. Could be genetic, could be environmental, could be both.

    Thanks, Larry!

  10. kira Says:

    Hi,Justin
    My mother was misdiagnosed 12 years ago, but when I asked consultation from hematologist (I live in Toronto) I saw that he really has clear understanding what to look for.. Plus, he mentioned to me several times that from his long time carrier in Myeloma treatment he, himself didn’t see any of offsprings sick with that desease,and just to mention, he is one of the best in his specialisation in the city. He also mentiond to me that it wouldn’t be wrong just for myself to have every year protein electroforesis test. Does that help? I dont know…

  11. kira Says:

    Hi,Pat
    Thanks again for taking care of my concern. I asked this question since I live in different country from my mother lived for years, so I hope that genetic/environmental factors might be different…

  12. Pat Killingsworth Says:

    Easy for me to say, but “NO WORRIES!” Good luck! Thanks for reading…

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