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2201, 2016

We need more open and honest conversations about multiple myeloma

By |January 22nd, 2016|Caregivers, News, RIP, Support, Tips|

One of my pet peeves: when celebrities don’t disclose the type of cancer that they’re battling. They could at least devulge it in their obituary. Most of the rest of us disclose it. Obviously I’ve done so much more. I’m not implying everyone needs to be as open as I am. But come on: inquiring […]

1201, 2016

Cancer patients lost a hero this week

By |January 12th, 2016|Inspirational, RIP|

Ellen Stovall should be in the cancer activist hall of fame. I never met her; never even heard of her. But lengthy obits in the New York Times and USA Today was my first hint how special she was.

801, 2016

Rest in peace dearest Sara

By |January 8th, 2016|Caregivers, Inspirational, RIP, Support, Tips|

These are the posts I dread writing. One of my closest myeloma friends, Sara Lathan, from Charlotte, North Carolina, lost her extended fight with multiple myeloma earlier this week.

2911, 2015

Statistics meaningless when we’re a clinical trial of one

By |November 29th, 2015|About Pat, RIP, Transplants|

As often happens after I memorialize someone, I got several emails from others that recently lost their loved ones. One graciously thanked me for sharing my journey Friday, revealing that she had lost her husband after a short, six month struggle with multiple myeloma.

2611, 2015

I’m thankful for my myeloma friends, alive and past

By |November 26th, 2015|Caregivers, Inspirational, RIP|

Thanksgiving is all about family and friendships. I have made some amazing friends during my myeloma journey. Some I’ve never met. We’ve simply emailed regularly for years.

105, 2015

Living to Make a Difference: Mike Katz (Part Two)

By |May 1st, 2015|Inspirational, RIP|

Writer Greg Brozeit reminds us that any myeloma patient that has ever taken dexamethasone owes Mike Katz a heartfelt “Thank you!”
Living to Make a Difference: Mike Katz (Part Two)

3004, 2015

Living to Make a Difference: Mike Katz (Part One)

By |April 30th, 2015|Inspirational, RIP|

I wrote briefly about 25 year multiple myeloma survivor, Mike Katz, earlier this week.  But I didn’t really know him; we only spoke briefly when our paths would cross at receptions, or when he was working in the IMF’s exhibition booth at ASH or ASCO.

2704, 2015

Myeloma legend Mike Katz has died

By |April 27th, 2015|News, RIP|

Mike Katz was the longest living myeloma patient I’ve ever met; I believe it has been 25 years since he was first diagnosed.

2004, 2015

Well known novelist dies of multiple myeloma

By |April 20th, 2015|Inspirational, RIP|

A number of readers from the Western U.S. emailed me about author Ivan Doig’s passing.  The popular and well published novelist from Idaho died last week from complications related to his ongoing battle with multiple myeloma.
Ivan Doig dies at 75; writer captured the American West
April 13, 2015 – Associated Press and the L.A. Times

2301, 2015

In tough times, myeloma patients surrounded by heroes

By |January 23rd, 2015|About Pat, Caregivers, Inspirational, RIP|

I’m disillusioned this morning.  Waking up to our favorite am news show, CBS This Morning, I was bombarded by stories about corrupt politicians and others that only seem to care about themselves.  I know all too well that none of us are perfect.  But here’s a radical thought: Why can’t people just be nice?

2409, 2014

We’ve lost another myeloma hero

By |September 24th, 2014|Caregivers, Inspirational, News, RIP, Support|

I was devastated to learn that another close friend, Jim Byrd, died this week.

809, 2014

Donald J. Hamilton 1932-2014

By |September 8th, 2014|RIP|

In July I ran a pair of Patient Snapshot posts about multiple myeloma patient, Don Hamilton, and his wife and caregiver, Joan:
Patient Snapshot: Don and Joan Hamilton from Ohio (Part One)
Patient Snapshot: Don and Joan Hamilton from Ohio (Part Two)

3108, 2014

Lessons learned from one of my first myeloma heroes

By |August 31st, 2014|About Pat, Caregivers, Inspirational, RIP|

What a nice surprise!  Last night I received an email from an old friend, Joan Liedl.  Joan was wife and caregiver to a good friend of mine, Loren, who passed away back in January of 2010.

3007, 2014

I’ll miss you, Arnie–we all will

By |July 30th, 2014|RIP|

I learned yesterday that Arnie Goodman had died.

1607, 2014

I can’t believe that Karl’s gone…

By |July 16th, 2014|About Pat, Caregivers, Inspirational, RIP|

Major League Baseball’s annual All Star Game was played last night at Target Field in Minneapolis.  My dear friend, Karl Vollstedt, was a huge Minnesota Twins fan.  As I leaned over to pick up the phone to congratulate him and chat during the game, I was jolted back to reality: Karl died in April.

2505, 2014

Rest in peace, Myeloma Angel

By |May 25th, 2014|Inspirational, RIP|

The joy I felt from yesterday’s fun, frivolous post quickly gave was to an overwhelming wave of sadness.  My dear friend, Millennium Patient Ambassador and broadcast myeloma support group member, Sandy Hirsch, died earlier this weekend from complications associated with her high risk multiple myeloma.

1904, 2014

Mourning the loss of a true myeloma hero

By |April 19th, 2014|Inspirational, RIP, Support|

One of my closest friends died Thursday night.  Karl Vollstedt was the most generous and positive person that I’ve ever known.

1203, 2014

A cautionary tale: Neil’s allo transplant gone wrong (Part Three)

By |March 12th, 2014|Inspirational, RIP, Transplants|

For the past two days I’ve shared details about Neil’s allo transplant recovery from hell.  Pulling his story together has caused me pause; I can’t imagine putting Pattie through something like this.  But things were looking up.  Hopefully the worst was behind them.

401, 2014

Remembering Laurie Arnn from Texas

By |January 4th, 2014|Caregivers, Inspirational, RIP|

The myeloma community has lost a dear friend, Laurie Arnn.  I first met Laurie online a year or so ago.  Despite enduring an unfair number of serious myeloma related side effects, she was always upbeat and positive.

2809, 2013

Rest in peace, daughter of the West

By |September 28th, 2013|About Pat, Inspirational, RIP|

I want to thank everyone who has kindly commented, called or emailed me after reading yesterday’s post.  Your compassion and empathy have lifted my spirits and helped me cope.  So far, so good!